If you don’t know how to keep your willy inside your pants, then you deserve to lose your family.
Seriously, some men JUST DON’T GET IT. Why is it that they feel it is perfectly alright for them to cheat on their wives and that their wives will continue to be there as the housekeeper, cleaner, cook, second-income earner, children producer and babysitter?
Reading this piece of news about a groveling husband begging his wife to return is so laughable and yet so disturbing on so many levels.
PETALING JAYA: In a desperate attempt to win back his estranged wife, a man has continued to plead for her forgiveness in public.
Salesman Kelvin Ng, 29, made his first public attempt a week ago in SS2 here. On Saturday, the distressed husband tried again, kneeling down in front of Amcorp Mall with banners and a poster saying “I Love You Lee Sook Chin”.
- Star Online
Now, reading this, most people would think his wife must have ran away due to a fight. Well, think again.
Ng said his wife had claimed that he had been caught cheating on her six times.
However, he said he only cheated on her thrice and vowed not to be “playful” anymore.
- Star Online
Oh right. He only cheated on her thrice. That’s not as bad as six times, surely. I mean, it is only three times. 
Seriously, if I am the wife, I would have taken the kids and left without a word after finding out about the FIRST time. Once a man strays, there’s no promises that he won’t do it again. Even if he doesn’t do it again, the trust is gone. Without trust, the marriage is also gone.
And men, please use your brains, the one on your head!, before letting that tiny brain between your legs do the thinking for you. Is losing your family really worth that fling? And why do men even think that wives should be the ones to close one eye about their ‘extracurricular’ activities?
So, does that mean it is perfectly alright for the wife to sleep around outside and the husband must learn to close an eye too? Remember, both sides can play the game too.
Can you imagine if the scenario above were reversed? The moment the husband found out his wife had cuckolded him once, don’t even have to be three times or six times, she would have been cast out and her children taken from her.
But now, it is him who ONLY CHEATED ON HER THREE TIMES and he expects her to come back to him. My advice to the wife:
Leave the blardy cheating basturd. He is not worth it. He may even be bringing back all sorts of diseases from all his ’side’ activities.
A marriage is no longer a marriage when one partner breaks the vows for whatever reason. Cheating once may be forgivable, according to some women (BUT DEFINITELY NOT ME, SO, HUBBY, CONSIDERED YOURSELF WARNED), but THREE TIMES? Ever heard of strike three and you are out?
So, cheating husbands, your days are numbered. One day you will wake up and find that your ‘perfect’ family is gone because of you.
Which reminds me, have you watched the movie Butterfly on a Wheel? It is SO damn relevant to this whole sordid matter and I SO love Pierce Brosnan. Go watch it and you will know. Especially you cheating husbands out there.
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Ayah, us mere men cannot defy nature. Man is the hunter, it is in our genes to go hunting. Conquest is bred into us lah. Never read the bible ah? It tell us to go forth and sow our wild oats.
The desire to multiply and propagate the species is in the very fabric of our being. Women should just obey and wait for the cavemen in us to come and wallop them on the head and drag them off to our caves.
That poor fellow from PJ is just a victim of circumstances. He saw this skinny half starved woman in SS13 and took pity on her and took her home. He then fed her the chocolate cake he baked for his wife who did not want want to eat it because she was afraid she will put on weight.
Then seeing her torn and dirty clothes he gave her the dress that he bought for his wife which she did want to wear because someone in the office had one just the same.
Then he also gave her the underwear he bought for his wife on valentines day, because she did not want to wear it. She told the husband was told that he got no taste in womens underwear.
Then he gave her the pair of shoes that he bought for the wife which she did not want because it was the wrong colour and did not match her handbag.
On the way out the other woman ask the husband “is there anything else your wife doesn’t want?”…….and the result…..:)
We men very innocent one….
History of salesmen
It is always about their girlfriends
In different towns and cities
Learning about their exploits
On women willing to sacrifice
Once they get married
They shouldn’t dance into it again
Understand when one is single
Go and play around
Once the marriage certificate signed
Dancing with different partners will be the past
Yet guys always giving excuses
A lame one I must add
“I can’t get no satisfaction”
Even in offices
We hear of sexual relations
Something must be seriously wrong
When married guys go for it
And single women…..
Lament of good guys to catch
All the good ones got married
So now they want to take part in it
Catch the married guys
If only the married guys stop to think
About affairs and the problems arise
Cheat once, cheat twice, and forever will try
The cycle will never end promises will not mend
It will be the road of heartaches and emotional pain
And so ends a trust
Affairs of the valley
When one is a lone ranger
Nobody cares what have been done
With affairs coming into it
If only they know the rules
Once broken it will be hard to renew
No matter how many promises make
It happens again and again
The family crying the dark clouds in the minds
It will take years to heal…..
Some never forgive
Wow! Cheated 6 times then halved to 3. Not bad, eh? But I think the wife should forgive him lah. Poor man, Have to kneel to beg for forgiveness.
Only problem is, he can always cheat again. There’s no promise he won’t do it again. It’s in his genes. And if he can beg for forgiveness in public, he can of course do it all again maybe with bigger banners. LOL!
Hahaha….make him kneel down on Chinese abacus with a chamber pot on his head and a baby dummy in his mouth.
Can have 6 affairs that fellow must be God’s gift to women.
Engineer: sorry, I don’t read bible wan. never heard of wild oats and such… God’s gift to women? Uggghhh…. looking at him, he probably PAID for those six women to sleep with him. Or maybe they were just blind.
caravanserai: when trust is broken, it is never easy to forgive.
foongpc: Wei, why should she forgive him just because he kneel down a few crummy hours? What if he infected her with HIV because of his extracurricular activities? Men like this are not worth anything at all.
He came on the radio yesterday http://www.flyfm.com.my/blog_amrita/?view=plink&id=132
And claimed that he never had any intimate relationship with those women. He only went out with them as ‘friends’. He doesn’t agree with his wife that he had cheated on her. He also went on to add that his wife goes out until 2-3am in the morning with other men. I felt he was trying to tarnish the wife’s image. Who knows the real story.
I totally agree with you on this. How come the men always get away with this cheating nonsense and expect the women to tolerate them!
Btw, initially I got confused thinking you’re Foongpc or related? :)
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The bible never says anything about going out to sow wild oats. People take it out of context. The bible does say to the keep the marriage bed pure!
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adrian: seems like the soon-to-be ex-wife has decided that she really had enough. I read that she is not going back to him eventhough now he is trying to sabotage her work.
Mei Teng: No, lar. Not related to Foongpc. I think Foong is his surname but my surname is not Foong, it’s my name. So, we are definitely not related. Besides, he is just so nice not like mean old sarcastic me.
ahhh…wei, Engineer, you see that? No wild oats in the Bible la! You trying to cheat me ah?